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Helping Men Become Better Men

All men struggle with aspects of their life...

Men often feel:

  • Angry
  • Stressed
  • Unworthy
  • Unappreciated
  • Inadequate
  • Depressed
  • Un-loveable
  • Worthless
  • Disrespected
  • Disconnected
  • Overwhelmed
  • Short Fused

It's a useful starting point to know that:

  • how you Think
  • how you React, and
  • how you Behave

in response to life's challenges is not necessarily intentional or deliberate.

Watch the video to learn more.

However, when a man fails to have the courage to do something about it, it often results in adding to the disturbing statistics around:

  • Relationship Problems
  • Alcohol & Drug Abuse
  • Declining Mental & Physical Health
  • Aggressive and Violent Behaviour
  • Poor Role Model for Children
  • Separation and Divorce
  • Financial Hardship
  • Self-Harm and Suicide

The next 5 minutes could lead to a decision that
empowers you to get your life and relationships back on track!

Recognise the Key
Indicators That It's Time for Men's Work

There are several indicators that a man may be struggling with life, carrying past traumas, or resisting personal growth.

Consider the following questions and see how many resonate with your current situation:

  • Do your moods frequently fluctuate?
  • Are you unable to control your emotions?
  • Do you often transition from anger to rage?
  • Are your reactions extreme?
  • Do you struggle with low self-esteem or self-worth?
  • Do you easily fall into a victim mentality or depression?
  • Do you prioritize work above all else?
  • Do you behave younger than your actual age?
  • Are you turning to alcohol or drugs as a coping mechanism?

If any of these indicators resonate with you, it's a clear sign that it's time to do some "men's work" and make a change.

Join us at Merlin's Code and discover the tools and support you need to overcome these challenges. Our program is designed to help you grow, heal, and become the best version of yourself. Don't wait any longer - start your transformation today.

Indicators That Your
Relationship Is Under Threat

There are many indicators that your relationship is not as good as it once was, or not as good as it could be.

Here are some of the indicators of an unhealthy relationship:

  • You argue about everything
  • There is a lack of intimacy
  • There is a lack of trust
  • Your partner is highly critical of you
  • There is a lack of romance or quality time
  • There is disrespect, contempt or violence

How WYSER Men Helps Men Transform

WYSER Men specialise in helping men transform their lives to become better men, better partners and better fathers. running an online course for men called Merlin's Code®.

What makes WYSER Men different is:

  • Our focus is on learning - not training.
  • Facilitated course is Group Learning.
  • Course run by men for men.
  • Online - no muddy obstacle courses or yelling at the top of a mountain.
  • Unlike other courses, we help you focus on both your Outer Game as well as your Inner Game.
  • Certified Mentors and WYSER Elders.
  • Merlin's Code has been helping men for 35+ years and is now fully online.

About Merlin's Code

The Merlin's Code Life Skills & Mental Health Awareness course is designed with a solid foundation in modern psychology, incorporating established practices in personal and relationship therapy. It utilizes metaphors to enhance the learning experience for men who follow the WYSER Men path.

Merlin was a mythical advisor to King Arthur and the Knights of the Round Table, known for his wisdom and ability to foresee the future. The knights of the Middle Ages lived by a code of conduct that still captivates people today. Merlin was also a shapeshifter, and his wisdom is woven through Merlin's Code and over time has proven to help many men transform and change not only their lives but the lives of their partners and children.

Merlin's Code is a remarkable course filled with timeless wisdom that holds immense relevance for today's modern men and their families. It redefines modern masculinity and empowers men to embrace their authentic selves. Our program focuses on three key areas:

  • sovereignty,
  • self-connection, and
  • relationships.

By developing these aspects of life, we help men build a strong foundation for a meaningful and fulfilling future.

Self-connection is an integral part of personal growth. We guide men on a journey of introspection and self-discovery to deepen their understanding of emotions, desires, and fears. This process enhances emotional intelligence, improves decision-making skills, and nurtures a healthy sense of self-worth.

In addition to personal growth, healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilled life. We delve into various types of relationships while discussing vital topics such as communication, empathy, respect, and boundaries.

Our training equips men with the necessary tools to cultivate authentic connections with others.

The course helps men make a profound change in their life as a man. As men undergo this transformative journey, their partner will come to admire the man they have become, their children will strengthen their connection with them, and harmony will flourish within their family's home. With these incredible outcomes awaiting you, can there possibly be anything else you could need?

Video Overview Of

Merlin's Code

Life Skills & Mental Health Awareness

The Merlin's Code course offers a transformative program for men, which takes you on a journey of deep introspection and change. It assists men regain control over their lives and become better men, better partners and better fathers in today's world.

The course is built on modern psychology including personal and relationship therapy. It redefines modern masculinity and empowers men to embrace their own sovereignty in a way that is supportive and respectful.

Course Modules

The Merlin's Code program consists of 5 modules (which we call Quests):

  • Quest 1 | A Man's Timeline
  • Quest 2 | Life Priorities
  • Quest 3 | The Natural Order
  • Quest 4 | Emotional Responsibility
  • Quest 5 | Family Harmony

Watch the short videos below for a comprehensive overview of each Quest.

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Video Overview Of

A Man's Timeline

Merlin's Code | Quest 1

A Man's Timeline takes you on a deep exploration of your formative years and reveals how modelling and traumas from your past unconsciously influence how you think, react and show-up in your life today. It provides an opportunity for you to identify, work through and drop-off your suppressed emotional baggage, learn from past life experiences and turn them into powerful Life Skills for a better future.

The course examines the main stages of a man's life, the "switch zones" that a man goes through, and the decisions, learning opportunities and responsibilities of Manhood associated with each – clearing the way for men to learn from their past experiences and become the best possible versions of themselves.

Video Overview Of

Life Priorities

Merlin's Code | Quest 2

Life Priorities examines the four main priorities in life and the challenges caused by not having them in the right order - especially the affect on your wellbeing, mental health and relationships. This Quest helps you get your priorities in the correct order, set and maintain boundaries around those priorities and learn to negotiate and agree on temporary changes to those priorities with others when needed. It provides you with a framework for living and making important decisions, which helps improve your happiness, personal fulfillment, connections and relationships.

Video Overview Of

The Natural Order

Merlin's Code | Quest 3

The Natural Order provides insights into how there is an order within relationships and family structures driven by personality types, and the unnecessary challenges and conflicts faced by men who don't fully understand and accept their natural place within that order. This Quest helps you become comfortable with who you really are, understand how you and your partner fit into the Natural Order, and how you can both exist in harmony.

This Quest highlights how your ideas and understanding of intimacy, sexuality, personal interactions between males and females, how to treat a woman, how to argue, how to react to confrontation, and so on, has all been unconsciously instilled in you by your life experiences. The Quest guides you towards becoming a man who creates a harmonious life with his partner, and knows how to approach conflict in a controlled and respectful way.

Video Overview Of

Emotional Responsibility

Merlin's Code | Quest 4

Emotional Responsibility is about understanding the affects that your emotions have on the way you show up as a man, and more importantly, how your response to those emotions effects those closest to you. This Quest takes you on a journey towards a deeper awareness of your emotional body and helps you identify and connect with your feelings - allowing you to control your emotional reactions to life's challenges and become more Emotionally Responsible in your responses to those challenges.

It helps you feel emotions in your body and be able to control your emotional responses, as well as share your feelings with your partner, family and friends in a useful and meaningful way.

Video Overview Of

Family Harmony

Merlin's Code | Quest 5

The Family Harmony Quest helps you create a sense of unity and togetherness among family members. It creates a positive atmosphere where conflicts are resolved amicably, and individuals can express themselves freely without fear of judgment or criticism. It takes you on a journey towards becoming a man who shows up as a happy, balanced and loving man, and a good partner and father - a man who has a positive routine and dedicates time to ensure that your Life Priorities remain focused, your "cup remains full", you are Emotionally Responsible and understand why that is important to Family Harmony.

This Quest helps you to work with your partner (or housemates) to put the strategies and support structures in place to ensure a harmonious home, and develop the Life Skills to work with your partner to create a life of happiness and harmony within your home. It reminds you that your children are watching and learning from their observations and experiences of what is being modelled to them by their parents. When you take responsibility for the way that you "show up" (especially at the end of a work day), your family will feel safe enough to connect, communicate, and share their lives in harmony!

Upcoming Facilitated Group Courses

We are taking registrations now for the following upcoming Merlin's Code online group learning programs.

The facilitated group learning program is run over a five-week period and covers the entire Merlin's Code course. You will be required to complete the online course material in your own time before our weekly online meetings via Zoom. These meetings happen twice per week for the five weeks and involve all course participants. The meetings are facilitated by WYSER Men's Certified Mentors and WYSER Elders, and run for approximately 2 hours giving participants a total of 22 hours of mentoring.

During the weekly Zoom meetings, our Certified Mentors will facilitate all men in the group to be able to discuss their personal discoveries and challenges from working through the course material. This enables all participants to gain a much deeper understanding of Merlin's Code, as well as gain greater insights and benefits from the learnings and experiences of other men in his group.

The weekly meetings not only enable you to connect with and learn from other men who are on the same journey as you, but also to foster the creation of an ongoing support network of like-minded men who have committed themselves to do the "work" required to understand Manhood and apply those learnings towards becoming a better man.

All you need is a mobile phone, tablet or laptop.

Merlin's Code
Life Skills & Mental Health Awareness

3 Oct 2024 to 7 Nov 2024
Online Zoom calls are on
Thursdays and Mondays starting 7:30pm
(Timezone Australia/Brisbane)

Merlin's Code
Life Skills & Mental Health Awareness

18 Nov 2024 to 23 Dec 2024
Online Zoom calls are on
Mondays and Thursdays starting 7:30pm
(Timezone Australia/Brisbane)

Self-Paced Individual Courses

Complete the Merlin's Code program in your own time. Register and start now!

The Merlin's Code program can be completed on a per-module basis as 5 separate courses. Students can complete one or more of the courses as individual self-paced eLearning modules. Simply register for one of the courses and complete it at your own pace. These courses are not facilitated.

A Man's Timeline
Merlin's Code Quest 1

A deep look into explaining a man's journey across his whole life and how his formative years unconsciously influences the man he is today. Drop off your emotional baggage!

Life Priorities
Merlin's Code Quest 2

You will quickly come to realise that the priorities you have adopted in your life do NOT serve you or your family, giving you a life-changing self-awareness.

The Natural Order
Merlin's Code Quest 3

A deep look into relationship and family structures and how there is a natural order to how they can exist in harmony. Learn how to argue respectfully.

Emotional Responsibility
Merlin's Code Quest 4

Develop awareness about your emotions (other than anger) and learn how to deal with and share your emotions and feelings with your loved ones and others.

Family Harmony
Merlin's Code Quest 5

Learn how to create a harmonious family environment where your children can learn communication, connection, and boundaries all from your modelling!

"Before doing this work I was showing up in my life as an immature little boy. The course is only 5 weeks, and the transformation that I've experienced really felt like an initiation into manhood - starting to become a man and showing up in the world as a man. That's really changed everything, not just for me but my family and my business. No matter what age you are, I would strongly recommend this course to every man."

Tom Hunt

"My life has changed exponentially after doing this program. I've broken the cycle of toxic relationships that I've been in over and over again. Now my relationship is amazing because of the skill sets that I learned through the program, which also apply to my parenting. I've been able to apply those skills to being a better dad, and my relationship with my partner and kids has never been better."

Neil Geddes

"There are very few times in my life when opportunities knock and I'm present to listen to them. And this was one of them. I was hurting a lot. And what I'd like to say to you, whoever's reading this, just take a stab in the dark and do this program for you - and not for anybody else. Because on the other side, there's an opportunity for you to meet yourself."

Puru Kundu

"I now have a deeper understanding of who I actually am as a man, how I can be authentic in who I am, and share my experiences and emotions openly and honestly. Merlin's Code has helped me be more open and honest in communication within my relationships, build deeper trust in those relationships with awareness of what's going on with myself and my partner, and have open conversations and not be fearful to express myself in a way that my partner can hear me."

Brooke Lucas

"Merlin's Code taught me that the thing I need to focus on most is me. The way I show up, the way I stand, and the way I understand things. Now I've got a better ability to be able to hold my space, to be able to not be blocked by the challenges of life - the ups and downs - and how I'm going to be able to show up for my family and my friends and maintain that."

Jason Spink

"I've learned life skills that have changed me as a man. They allow me to finish my day, and to go home and be a different man when I walk through that door - to be the real me. I've learned to how to deal differently with things in my life, to understand how I'm feeling rather than just getting angry... to consider other options. It gave me different tools that allow me to change the way I react and respond."

Gary Bates

"I found out that my physical age was different from my emotional age. I now realize that as a man in his 40s, my emotional age was still stuck in my 20s. I now have an awareness of bringing that gap closer and closer, to be able to improve my relationships with my partner, my family, at work, and primarily with myself. I've also learned to get my priorities in the right order to be able to do that."

Juan Martinez

"My life has definitely changed for the better. I'm now able to communicate what's going on for me and where I'm at, which allows my partner in deeper to me. It also gives us a foundation to be able to sit down and now have healthy communications rather than the way it used to be in past relationships. I'm already working on creating healthier relationships with my kids and my partner."

Duncan Burns

"One of the most important things that's come out of doing the Merlin's Code program is to find a group of men that I'm able to trust on a much deeper level. And in that trust, being able to express myself to the degree that there's no judgment, there's no fixing, but being held, and being able to share things that I probably wouldn't share in any other environment."

Ken Roberts
Easy Steps to a Better You
Step 1

How WYSER Men Works

WYSER Men provides online support to all men wanting to understand what this journey called life is all about. The 5-week course will change your life forever! You will complete online learning materials and meet with your fellow course participants online twice per week for the full 5 weeks. The meetings are facilitated by WYSER Men's Certified Mentors and give you the opportunity to share your learnings from the course material, as well as gain further insight into yourself by listening to the learnings of the other men on the course.

Step 2

Sign Up For Our 5 Week Course

In 5 weeks you will learn what's been holding you back from being the best man you can be. You will discover what true Life Priorities are and how to maintain them. You will learn how to argue (yes you heard me right) and to get in touch with, and communicate, your feelings. Finally, you will come to learn what Family Harmony is and how to achieve it! It will help you to become a better man, a better partner and a better father.

Step 3

Ongoing Support Community

We have never had any man not complete the course because of the curriculum. In fact, we have had so many men asking us "what's next?" WYSER Men is building an online community for all of the men who complete the course. We have forums and resources that create a knowledge and support base formed through our members seeking to be in better relationship with themselves, their partner and their family.

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WYSER Men Money Back Guarantee
Money back guarantee

Money Back Guarantee

Your satisfaction is what's most important to us. If at any time prior to the third Zoom meeting, for whatever reason, notify us in writing that you are not getting value from the Merlin's Code course, and we will give your money back.
15 insights you'll get from the Merlin's Code course
Insight 1

How to free yourself from the emotional burdens of your traumatised past.

Insight 2

Stop letting dysfunctional and self-limiting beliefs unconsciously define who you are.

Insight 3

How to live life's journey as a confident, sovereign and mature masculine.

Insight 4

Being in control of where you are going in life.

Insight 5

How to be in a happy, well balanced and harmonious life and relationship!

Insight 6

Setting clear boundaries to ensure the order of your life priorities is maintained!

Insight 7

Understand your place in the Natural Order and enjoy a harmonious life with your partner.

Insight 8

Approaching conflict with your partner in a controlled and respectful way.

Insight 9

Being a good man, good partner, good father and good role model.

Insight 10

Feel emotion in your body and be able to share your feelings with your partner, family and friends.

Insight 11

Become aware of your emotional reactions to life’s challenges and become more Emotionally Responsible about how you react.

Insight 12

How to leave your emotional baggage behind and free yourself from their burdens.

Insight 13

How to show up as a happy, balanced and loving father.

Insight 14

The importance of creating a positive routine and dedicating time to ensure your life priorities are focused.

Insight 15

Working with your partner to put strategies and support structures in place to ensure family harmony.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Merlin's Code is a facilitated online group learning program where course participants complete online learning material and attend a 2-hour Zoom meeting twice per week with all of the other participants (there are 11 Zoom meetings over the 5 week course). This style of learning is called group learning because the Zoom meetings are where the course participants come together online and learn more about themselves and other men by sharing and discussing what came up for them while completing the learning material prior to each meeting).

Each Zoom call is facilitated by one of WYSER Men's Certified Mentors (and also attended by one or more WYSER Elders).

There are 2 Zoom meetings per week, with a total of 11 throughout the duration of the 5-week program. Each meeting usually lasts around 2 hours and is facilitated by one of WYSER Men's Certified Mentors.

The meetings are held on the same days each week, for example, Monday's and Thursdays, and are always at the same time of day. So depending on which course you register for, the zoom meetings might be Tuesdays and Fridays at 10am, or perhaps Mondays and Thursdays at 7:30pm.

The Courses Currently Scheduled page on our website will provide you will all of those details. See https://wyser.men/courses for some 'live' examples.

All Zoom meetings are recorded and made available ONLY to those men attending YOUR course. This allows any man who is unable to attend a particular Zoom meeting to either watch the video of the meeting, or listen to the audio recording, and therefore catch-up on what he missed out on.

WYSER Men creates a group chat on WhatsApp for each course. This allows all participants the ability to message each other to share insights and learnings, as well as ask questions of each other, as well as the Certified Mentor and/or WYSER Elder attending the course.

This is up to you, and will depend very much on the depth of relationship you have with that man. We recommend that you discuss it with him and decide. We have many courses scheduled so there is no need for any hard decisions to be made.

The reason for considering this is because during the Zoom meetings all men are expected to share what came up for them while completing the online course material prior to each meeting. Sometimes the information and emotions that a man shares can be deeply personal, and may not be the sort of thing that a man may want a work colleague, family member or friend to know about them.

On the other hand, learning to share your inner-most thoughts and feelings with a man that you know can strengthen and deepen your relationship, which can result in ongoing support for each other as you continue your journey towards being the best version of yourself that you can possibly be.

The recommended age for the WYSER Breakthrough Experience is 22+. We see that life needs to be lived before a young man accesses this type of work, AND you are never too old to empower and step into your sovereignty.

All Merlin's Code trainings are online with online course material to complete and Zoom meetings to attend. You have choices to make when it comes to completing the course material and it all depends on your computer skills or preferences.

Some men have elected to print out all of the course material and use the printouts on a week-by-week basis to make handwritten notes.

Others complete the course material online by typing their responses into our online system. You can access the online course material well into the future, and can even download the course material at the end of the program with all of your responses to the questions included. Anything you type into WYSER Men's online system is totally private and can only be seen by you!

The Merlin's Code program is delivered online via our proprietary software program. Please ensure that you have Zoom installed on your machine prior to the first Zoom meeting (see the training dates you registered for).

When you register for the program, WYSER Men will provide you with instructions on how to login to our online system and access the online course material.

The Merlin's Code Life Skills training is designed to achieve outstanding results over a 5-week period. Your investment of both time and money is an investment IN YOU.

The program requires a $1,250 investment. For those unable to afford a once off payment, we offer a 4 payment option through PayPal Pay In 4 which you can select when making the payment on the course registration page. You make 1 payment upon registering for the course, and the remaining 3 payments are made at 2-weekly intervals.

If your circumstances still warrant it, feel free to contact WYSER Men by email at admin@wyser.men to discuss your situation and we will attempt to put a special payment plan in place, and in some special circumstances may also offer a discount.

For those unable to afford a once off payment, we offer a 4 payment option through PayPal Pay In 4 which you can select when making the payment on the course registration page. You make 1 payment upon registering for the course, and the remaining 3 payments are made at 2-weekly intervals.

If your circumstances still warrant it, feel free to contact WYSER Men by email at admin@wyser.men to discuss your situation and we will attempt to put a special payment plan in place, and in some special circumstances may also offer a discount.

The answer is "of course you can" the present system supports any man displaying leadership qualities to step up. WYSER Men has 15 fully trained Certified Mentors. Part of the Certified Mentor course requires each man to sit for and hold a Mental Health First Aid Certificate as well. There is also a 6.5-day training program that ensures ALL our Certified Mentors are capable of holding safe the Dragon's Den they are running.

Yes you can. We are very conscious that some men require more information before making decisions so simply call 1300 238 806 or email us at admin@wyser.men to discuss ANYTHING you need to know about WYSER Men and the Merlin's Code program. We are here to support every man on his quest to become a better man.

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