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You Don't Have to Walk This Path Alone
Imagine standing shoulder-to-shoulder with men who truly see you, understand you, challenge you, and celebrate your victories. This is the power of WYSER Men's Group.
Joining an online men's group isn't giving up — it's stepping up. It's where judgment fades, connection thrives, and strength is rebuilt.
WYSER Men's Group is not just for men who are struggling. Some men are fighting through challenges (pain), but some are striving for growth (gain) and some are ready to lead (train). No matter where you're at, WYSER Men's Group is where your transformation begins. This is your space to heal, grow, and make an impact.
WYSER Men's Group understands that:
WYSER Men's Group provides an environment where men can challenge each other to be better and offer feedback on their behaviour.
Men need a safe space to be vulnerable and express themselves. Men may not feel comfortable sharing their feelings in their daily lives. WYSER Men's Group offers an empathetic and supportive setting where men can be honest about their struggles and receive encouragement from other men.
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Join WYSER Men's Group and take the first step toward becoming the man you've always known you could be.
Where Are You At?
Pain, Gain or Train
At WYSER Men's Group, we recognize that every man who joins our community is on a unique journey. Whether you're here to heal, grow or lead, our Pain | Gain | Train framework helps you find where you fit - and where you want to go next.
No matter where you are today - Pain, Gain or Train - you have a place in the WYSER Men's Group. We grow together by supporting, learning, and challenging each other.
This is your journey. Let's take the next step together.
Pain
Seeking Support & Clarity
Are you struggling with life's challenges? Whether it's relationships, career setbacks, family conflicts, or personal struggles, you're not alone. The Pain category is for men who are looking for:
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A safe space to be heard and supported.
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Guidance to navigate tough times.
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A community that understands what you're going through.
Gain
Ready for Personal Growth
Are you ready to level up? You might not be in crisis, but you want more from life—better relationships, stronger leadership, greater success. The Gain category is for men who are looking for:
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Accountability and motivation to push forward towards their goals.
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Practical skills to improve communication, self-discipline, and mindset.
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A community that challenges you to grow.
Train
Leading & Supporting Men
Have you done the work and now feel called to give back? The Train category is for men who want to:
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Mentor, support and guide other men through their pain or gain journey.
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Sharpen their leadership, coaching or mentor skills and make an impact.
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Strengthen our community by supporting and inspiring fellow men.
What To Expect
About WYSER Men's Group
Every man needs a space to grow, connect, and thrive. WYSER Men's Group is more than an online community - it's your gateway to transformation.
Our online community offers a convenient and accessible way for men to connect, learn and grow using our mobile app or a browser on any device. We host discussions, training events, share resources, and facilitate communication between members from all over the world. Our online community for men includes:
WYSER Men and our Certified Mentors regularly introduce specific themes or topics for discussion, such as relationships, purpose in life, stress management and communication skill
Our Discussion Groups include:
- Addiction
- Co-Parenting
- Domestic Violence
- Emotional Control
- Fatherhood
- Mental Health
- Quarter & Mid-Life Crisis
- Relationships
- Masulinity
- Separation & Divorce
- Shadow Self
We provide members with an ever growing curated library of online resources, such as articles, podcasts, and videos related to men's self-development.
Listen to a short, powerful podcast that provides insights about WYSER Men's Group — perfect for busy men ready to grow on the go!
The WYSER Alliance
Strength in Brotherhood
WYSER Men's Group is more than a community - it's a network built on real support, accountability, and growth. We partner with trusted men's organisations to give all members access to training, mentorship and resources that help them move forward.
When you join WYSER Men's Group, you're not just entering a group, you're becoming part of a larger movement. Our alliances ensure that no man walks alone, providing a variety of Alliance led practical tools, real connections, and solid guidance via a variety of modalities for every stage of a man's life.
WYSER Men's Group is a central hub where carefully selected men's organisations come together. Here, all members gain access to structured training, leadership opportunities, and a strong support system - all in one place. Whether you need help, are working on personal growth, or are ready to lead, this is where you take your next step.
This is more than a men's group - it's a network of men committed to mutual growth and support.
You don't have to do this alone. Join a brotherhood of strong men's organisations, offering every tool and resource a man needs to help him heal, grow and lead.
Men's Issues
Challenges Faced By Men
For many men, life feels like an endless climb, with pressure at every turn. Societal expectations demand you "have it all figured out", evolving gender roles leave you questioning your place, and the weight of modern life can feel unbearable when carried alone.
These struggles aren't just challenges, they're barriers that can impact every part of a man's life. From emotional and mental well-being to relationships and physical health, the burdens are real:
Traditional gender roles often pressure men to be strong, independent, and emotionally reserved. This can make it difficult for them to express their feelings and seek help when needed.
Balancing demanding careers with family responsibilities can be stressful and lead to feelings of burnout and inadequacy.
Breakups, divorce, and relationship conflicts can cause emotional pain and distress.
Struggling with finances can create anxiety and worry, affecting overall mental health.
Physical health issues, such as chronic illnesses or injuries, can take an emotional toll.
Experiencing traumatic events, like abuse or violence, can have long-lasting emotional consequences.
Feeling disconnected from others can lead to feelings of sadness and depression.
Men may find it difficult to find supportive relationships or feel comfortable sharing their emotions with others.
These challenges are universal, touching men of every age, background, and circumstance. But here's the truth: you don't have to face them alone.
At WYSER Men's Group, we offer more than support - we offer solutions. Our community provides the tools, connection, and encouragement you need to overcome life's challenges and thrive. Together, we rise stronger, rediscover our purpose, and take back control of our lives.
Watch a short video that provides insights into the struggles that men face and why men show up in their life the way they do
An Affordable Path to Brotherhood and Growth
How We Help
At WYSER Men's Group, we've created a unique space where men can break free from isolation and step into their full potential.
Research shows that social isolation can be detrimental to one's health, potentially increasing the risk of dying by as much as 30%. Online men's groups provide a platform for men to connect with like-minded individuals, fostering a sense of community and belonging.
The WYSER Men's Group is a safe and supportive space where men can share their feelings and challenges without fear of judgment.
Many men find it difficult to establish meaningful connections with other men outside of work or family contexts, but men's groups can provide a space where men can build friendships and create a sense of community.
Societal pressures to conform to traditional masculinity norms can lead to feelings of isolation, shame, and inadequacy for men. However, we offer a counterbalance to these norms by encouraging emotional expression and vulnerability.
We provide a platform for men to learn and practice effective communication skills. By actively listening and engaging in discussions, men can enhance their ability to express themselves clearly and empathetically.
WYSER Men's Group encourages men to set and achieve their personal growth goals. By sharing their goals with the group, men can receive support, encouragement, and accountability, which can motivate them to make positive changes in their lives.
We offer structured programs and resources, such as the Merlin's Code group learning program, which includes a focus on developing emotional intelligence and emotional responsibility. Through guided exercises and discussions, men can learn to understand and manage their emotions, fostering healthier relationships and overall well-being.
The structured environment of WYSER Men's Group allows for meaningful conversations and feedback from other men. Men can gain valuable insights into their own behaviours and patterns by observing and learning from the experiences of others.
While this may seem counterintuitive, investing time in a men's community like WYSER Men's Group can positively impact relationships with women. When men have a strong support system and a healthy outlet for emotional connection, they can show up more fully and authentically in their romantic relationships.
We attract men from diverse backgrounds, ages, professions, and ethnicities. This diversity allows men to broaden their perspectives and learn from individuals with different life experiences.
Our online platform offers the convenience and flexibility of connecting with other men from the comfort of their own homes (or from anywhere around the world). This can be particularly beneficial for men with busy schedules or those who live in areas with limited access to in-person men's groups.
Your journey to connection, growth, and belonging starts here.
What's important to WYSER Men's Group?
Group Mission and Values
Our Mission
WYSER Men's Group exists to help men reclaim their power and purpose. Through connection, support, and growth, we guide men to become stronger, more fulfilled individuals — better partners, fathers, and leaders. Together, we build a life of meaning, courage, and impact.
Our Values
Connection That Heals
We create a safe, judgment-free space where men connect with like-minded brothers. Here, you'll find understanding, camaraderie, and the realization that you're never alone in your challenges.
Support That Strengthens
Share your story and receive unwavering encouragement from a brotherhood that truly gets it. Vulnerabilities are met with empathy, and shared experiences become stepping stones to growth.
Empowerment That Transforms
Build emotional intelligence, sharpen your communication, and gain self-awareness. Our workshops and peer mentorship programs are designed to help you take ownership of your life and embrace positive change.
Accountability That Drives Growth
Together, we hold each other accountable to our goals and values. By aligning actions with aspirations, we inspire and challenge each other to rise and stay committed to personal growth.
Transformation That Lasts
Through connection, support, and accountability, men in WYSER Men's Group experience profound personal growth, healthier relationships, and the clarity to lead a fulfilling, purposeful life.
Confidentiality That Builds Trust
What's shared here stays here. Your personal experiences and vulnerabilities are respected, creating a safe and sacred space for honest and open communication.
Learn More About Men's Groups
Take a Deeper Dive
Are you ready to discover what an Online Men's Group can truly do for you?
An Online Men's Group is not just about having meetings with other men — they're lifelines for men seeking connection, strength, and purpose. Explore the dropdowns below to find answers to your questions. See why countless men are stepping out of isolation and into a brotherhood that helps transform their lives.
An Online Men's Group is a sanctuary - a place where men gather to share their struggles, celebrate their wins, and grow together. They aren't just a space to talk - for some men they're a lifeline!
They're a safe, judgment-free space, where you'll find connection, guidance, and the tools you need to rebuild and thrive - to belong, to heal, and to rise.
It's where men like you come together to share, listen, and grow — not alone, but side by side. It's where you can speak your truth, find understanding, and be reminded of your strengths.
Online Men's Groups help men:
You don't have to carry it all alone. Here, you'll find connection, understanding, and a sense of belonging.
Be seen, heard, and supported—without judgment. This is where vulnerability becomes strength.
There's power in letting go of outdated expectations. Here, you'll find freedom to be fully yourself.
Wherever you are, whenever you need it—support is always within reach.
This isn't just about surviving—it's about growing together on this Pathway to Manhood. It's about finding the courage to take your next step and the strength to keep going.
In this brotherhood, you're not alone. You're supported. You're understood. You're seen. And importantly you're heard!
We believe that every man deserves a place where he can feel safe to express himself and grow as a man after all we are all on this Pathway some just do it different to others!
To make this possible, Online Men's Groups promote and develop an environment which fosters:
- Emotional Expression | A place to share feelings and emotions without fear of judgment.
- Honest Conversations | The ability to have open and honest discussions about challenges and insecurities.
- Relatable Connections | Finding others who understand the unique challenges of being a man in today's world.
- Empathy and Support | Knowing that others have gone through similar experiences.
- Problem-Solving | Seeking advice on specific issues like relationships, careers, or parenting.
- Peer Support | Encouragement and motivation from fellow community members.
- Self-Improvement | Access to resources and tools for personal development.
- Learning Opportunities | Participating in discussions and learning from others' experiences.
- Community and Camaraderie | Feeling connected to a group of like-minded individuals.
- Social Interaction | Building friendships and social connections.
By providing these elements, online communities can significantly improve men's mental health, relationships, and overall quality of life.
Because every man deserves support and a place to grow.
An Online Men's Group offers more than advice — it's a brotherhood. It's a space where men gather to support, learn and grow together.
Here's why it matters:
Research shows that social isolation can be detrimental to one's health, potentially increasing the risk of dying by as much as 30%. Online men's groups provide a platform for men to connect with like-minded individuals, fostering a sense of community and belonging.
Research shows that social isolation can be detrimental to one's health, potentially increasing the risk of dying by as much as 30%. Online men's groups provide a platform for men to connect with like-minded individuals, fostering a sense of community and belonging.
Many men find it difficult to establish meaningful connections with other men outside of work or family contexts, but men's groups can provide a space where men can build friendships and create a sense of community.
Societal pressures to conform to traditional masculinity norms can lead to feelings of isolation, shame, and inadequacy for men. However, men's groups offer a counterbalance to these norms by encouraging emotional expression and vulnerability.
Men's groups can provide a platform for men to learn and practice effective communication skills. By actively listening and engaging in discussions, men can enhance their ability to express themselves clearly and empathetically.
Men's groups can be instrumental in helping men set and achieve their personal growth goals. By sharing their goals with the group, men can receive support, encouragement, and accountability, which can motivate them to make positive changes in their lives.
Many online men's groups offer structured programs and resources, such as Evryman's Fundamentals program, that focus on developing emotional intelligence. Through guided exercises and discussions, men can learn to understand and manage their emotions, fostering healthier relationships and overall well-being.
The structured environment of online men's groups allows for meaningful conversations and feedback from other men. Men can gain valuable insights into their own behaviours and patterns by observing and learning from the experiences of others.
While this may seem counterintuitive, investing in a men's community can positively impact relationships with women. When men have a strong support system and a healthy outlet for emotional connection, they can show up more fully and authentically in their romantic relationships.
Online men's communities attract men from diverse backgrounds, ages, professions, and ethnicities. This diversity allows men to broaden their perspectives and learn from individuals with different life experiences.
Wherever you are, whenever you need it—support is always within reach.
Online men's communities offer the convenience and flexibility of connecting with other men from the comfort of their own homes. This can be particularly beneficial for men with busy schedules or those who live in areas with limited access to in-person men's groups.
Every man who's ready for change.
The WYSER Men's Group is for men who are tired of walking their path alone. It's for men seeking something more - more connection, more purpose, more strength. Whether you're a father, a son, a husband, a leader, or simply a man trying to make sense of it all, you belong here.
If you're ready to:
- Break free from loneliness and isolation,
- Let go of outdated ideas of what it means to be "a man",
- Find support through the challenges life throws at you,
- Discover tools to grow, connect, and lead with confidence, and/or
- Stand shoulder-to-shoulder with men who see you and have learnt how to listen,
then WYSER Men's Group is your next step.
Online Men's Groups attract:
You don't have to carry it all alone anymore. This is where you'll find connection, brotherhood, and belonging.
This is where it's safe to drop the mask, express yourself fully, and embrace who you truly are.
From fatherhood to grief, career shifts to relationship struggles you don't have to face it alone.
Learn the tools to communicate better, build emotional strength, and become the man you want to be.
Connect with men from all walks of life, share stories, and gain new perspectives that will change how you see your world.
No matter where you are or how busy life gets, this support is here for you, any time, and on your terms.
You don't need to be at rock bottom to join WYSER Men's Group. You don't have to have all the answers either. You just need to be ready to grow, to connect, to step into your strength, be ready to share "you", and learn how to listen to, and support, other men – that's what brotherhood does!
WYSER Men's Group is more than just a group. It's a lifeline, a brotherhood, and a chance to rise into the man you were always meant to be.
Your next step on your Pathway to Manhood starts here.
Because we've been told to stay silent - to carry the weight alone.
From a young age, men are taught to push through pain, to hide their struggles - to "man up." But what if the strongest thing you could do is reach out? Asking for help isn't a sign of weakness, it's an act of courage. It's saying, "I deserve better."
Joining an Online Men's Group isn't about giving up, it's about standing up. It's where judgment fades, connection grows, and strength is rebuilt.
The Barriers Men Face
"Be strong and stoic." For generations, men have been told to suppress emotions and to equate vulnerability with failure. Phrases like "toughen up" and "don't cry" build walls that keep men isolated, robbing them of the connection they need.
The fear of being judged as weak, broken, or incapable looms large. The pressure to "have it all together" stops many men from taking the first step toward healing.
Many men feel they must project strength and control to fulfill their role as protectors and providers. Admitting to struggles can feel like a crack in that image, leaving them trapped in silence.
Without examples of men openly seeking help and thriving, it can feel impossible to imagine a different way.
"What will they think of me?" The fear of being seen as less than can feel overwhelming, keeping men locked in their struggles.
"It's not that bad." Men often convince themselves their struggles aren't serious enough to warrant help, letting their pain fester and grow.
For many men, finding the words to share their struggles feels impossible. Vulnerability can feel like stepping into the unknown.
Socialized to solve problems alone, many men feel asking for help is admitting defeat. But some battles aren't meant to be fought alone.
The Cost of Silence
Holding back emotions creates distance, pushing loved ones away and leaving men feeling even more isolated.
Asking for help opens doors to self-discovery, healing, and transformation that silence will never unlock.
Unspoken struggles deepen over time, leading to burnout, substance abuse, and emotional collapse.
Men account for the majority of suicides worldwide, often because they feel they have nowhere to turn. It doesn't have to be this way.
The Way Forward
It's time to rewrite the story. Vulnerability isn't weakness—it's bravery. Asking for help isn't failure—it's the first step toward freedom.
An Online Men's Group is where silence ends and strength begins. It's where you'll find the connection you need, the clarity you crave, and the courage to rise. Together, we can break the cycle, redefine what it means to be strong, and create a space where men thrive.
This is where your journey starts. This is where you rise.
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Start your journey with WYSER Men's Group for the cost of just one coffee per week ($9.23 per week billed at $40 per month)
The following rules, guidelines and expectations are designed to foster a safe, supportive, and transformative environment for men seeking personal growth and meaningful connections. They are based on the values of WYSER Men's Group.
Connection That Heals
Men Only | This group is exclusively for men, creating a safe space for them to share their experiences. This is not a public forum or a social media platform.
Shared Experiences and Mutual Support | Members are expected to connect with other men and build a sense of camaraderie by sharing their stories and supporting each other.
Openness to New Connections | Members should be open to building new relationships with other members, leading to a deeper sense of belonging and security.
Kindness and Courtesy | Members are expected to treat each other with respect and contribute to a welcoming environment. This includes using thoughtful language.
No Hate Speech or Bullying | Bullying, or degrading comments related to race, religion, culture, sexual orientation, or identity are not permitted.
Support That Strengthens
Non-Judgemental Space | Members should contribute to a non-judgemental space, free from shame or criticism, allowing men to feel accepted and to express vulnerabilities.
Active Listening | Members should listen actively and respectfully to others' perspectives, even when they are different from their own.
Encouragement | Members should provide encouragement and understanding to fellow members.
Constructive Feedback | Members are encouraged to offer feedback in a supportive manner to help others improve their communication.
Generous Support | Members are expected to be generous with their support, as giving to others also benefits the giver.
Reporting Rule Violations | Members should report any violations of the group's rules or guidelines to the group admins.
Taboo Topics | Members are not to share opinions on religion, politics, identity or sexual preferences.
Empowerment That Transforms
Personal Responsibility | Members should take responsibility for their lives, and support each other's growth.
Influence Positive Change | The community aims to empower its members, enabling them to influence positive change within the group.
Healthy Challenge | The group will foster a culture of healthy challenge, where men are encouraged to grow and take responsibility.
Open and Honest Sharing | Members should be open and honest when sharing experiences and perspectives.
Direct Communication | Members are encouraged to be direct and ask for what they need.
Sharing Ideas | Members should share ideas and knowledge, contributing to the community's overall value.
Passion | Members have an opportunity to share a subject they are passionate about on the condition that it relates directly to the purpose, mission and values of WYSER Men's Group.
Accountability That Drives Growth
Get Involved | Members should be active and participate in group discussions, meetings, and activities.
Commitment to Growth | Members should be committed to personal growth, and be willing to examine their beliefs and behaviours.
Goal Setting | Members should set personal goals and share their progress with the group.
Encourage Desirable Behaviours | Members should encourage positive behaviours and provide motivation.
State Your Needs | Members are expected to be honest and directly state their needs.
Avoid Rambling | Members should be concise and to-the-point in communications, respecting the time of others.
No Self-Promotion | Members should not self-promote, spam, or post irrelevant links.
Avoid Dominating Meetings | Members should avoid dominating meetings or attempting to bring conversations back to their own issues.
Avoid Erratic Communication | Members should not post excessively or communicate in an erratic manner.
Transformation That Lasts
Challenge Limiting Beliefs | Members should challenge traditional masculine norms and explore alternative ways of being.
Personal Development | The group promotes personal development through self-reflection and challenging one another.
Emotional Intelligence | Members should develop their emotional intelligence, by recognising and managing their feelings.
Keep an Open Mind | Members are expected to keep an open mind and not judge others.
Invite Feedback | Members are encouraged to ask for and accept feedback.
Bring a Sense of Humour | Members should bring a sense of humour to conversations and help keep the discussions light hearted.
Embrace Vulnerability | Members should embrace vulnerability and understand that it is a sign of strength.
Learn from Others | Members should aim to learn from other's experiences and feedback.
Engage with Diverse Perspectives | Members should engage with different viewpoints and perspectives from the other members.
Contradictory Replies | Members are encouraged to share different perspectives and to engage in debates, as long as they are respectful.
Merlin's Code Program | Members who choose to participate in this program will be guided to understand their personal journey, re-evaluate their priorities, take emotional responsibility, explore relationship dynamics, and create a harmonious family environment.
Confidentiality That Builds Trust
Confidentiality | Members are expected to keep all conversations within the group confidential, and that what is shared in the group stays in the group.
Privacy | Members should respect the privacy of all other members.
Consequences of Not Following Rules
Warnings | Members who do not respect the rules will receive warnings.
Removal | Members who continue to break rules after warnings will be removed from the community.
Content Removal | The group has the right to remove content that is off-topic, does not fit with the community rules or is deemed harmful to the community.
Monthly Subscription
40 per month
What you'll get with your WYSER Men's Group membership:
- Access via Browser or Free Mobile App
- Discussion Groups
- Activities and Challenges
- Resource Library (Videos, Articles, Podcasts, Tools)
- Direct and Group Messaging
- Video Meetings
- Cancel with Ease Any Time
