Merlin's Code®

Discover your Pathway to Manhood

Merlin's Code®

Online Course For Men


Merlin's Code offers a transformative program for men which takes you on a journey of deep introspection and change, allowing you to regain control over your life and become a better man, better partner, and better father in today's world.

If you're struggling with who you are at present and:

  • cannot understand your reactions to the things happening in your life,
  • feel low self-worth and lack life purpose,
  • don't know what you want from life,
  • are unable to communicate your feelings with your partner, and
  • feel like a "little boy" in men's clothing,
then this online course can provide you with some pretty clear answers to clear up a lot of these problems and more!

This program helps all men clearly understand why this "disconnected male syndrome" (no matter what age they are) is happening in their lives - and we help them refocus on their masculinity to find happiness and love again.

The learning outcomes covered by the Merlin's Code program are extensive. They cover many insights into manhood and relationships, such as: discovering where you are at on your personal timeline, understanding intimacy, learning how to argue, exposing the natural order, discovering emotional responsibility, and learning how to prioritise you and your relationship with work, your wife/partner, the kids, blended families and more.

This Hero's Journey (for that is what this challenge is) will help you understand what is happening in your "crazy world" and by following that journey closely, you will learn to understand your inherent strengths and shadows and in turn discover what is the "Holy Grail" that helps you focus on being the man you have always dreamed of!

Merlin's Code can be thought of as teaching men an ancient "Code of Conduct" handed down by generations of Elders that helps all men understand their responsibilities towards life, their womenfolk, their families, and about how to become clearly focused men, able to handle the responsibilities of manhood.

" It's never too late to be what you might have been. "


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Merlin's Code

Life Skills & Mental Health Awareness

The Merlin's Code course offers a transformative program for men, which takes you on a journey of deep introspection and change. It assists men regain control over their lives and become better men, better partners and better fathers in today's world.

The course is built on modern psychology including personal and relationship therapy. It redefines modern masculinity and empowers men to embrace their own sovereignty in a way that is supportive and respectful.

"Before doing this work I was showing up in my life as an immature little boy. The course is only 5 weeks, and the transformation that I've experienced really felt like an initiation into manhood - starting to become a man and showing up in the world as a man. That's really changed everything, not just for me but my family and my business. No matter what age you are, I would strongly recommend this course to every man."

Tom Hunt

"My life has changed exponentially after doing this program. I've broken the cycle of toxic relationships that I've been in over and over again. Now my relationship is amazing because of the skill sets that I learned through the program, which also apply to my parenting. I've been able to apply those skills to being a better dad, and my relationship with my partner and kids has never been better."

Neil Geddes

"There are very few times in my life when opportunities knock and I'm present to listen to them. And this was one of them. I was hurting a lot. And what I'd like to say to you, whoever's reading this, just take a stab in the dark and do this program for you - and not for anybody else. Because on the other side, there's an opportunity for you to meet yourself."

Puru Kundu

Course Modules

The Merlin's Code program consists of 5 modules (which we call Quests):

  • Quest 1 | A Man's Timeline
  • Quest 2 | Life Priorities
  • Quest 3 | The Natural Order
  • Quest 4 | Emotional Responsibility
  • Quest 5 | Family Harmony

Watch the short videos below for a comprehensive overview of each Quest.

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A Man's Timeline

Merlin's Code | Quest 1

A Man's Timeline takes you on a deep exploration of your formative years and reveals how modelling and traumas from your past unconsciously influence how you think, react and show-up in your life today. It provides an opportunity for you to identify, work through and drop-off your suppressed emotional baggage, learn from past life experiences and turn them into powerful Life Skills for a better future.

The course examines the main stages of a man's life, the "switch zones" that a man goes through, and the decisions, learning opportunities and responsibilities of Manhood associated with each – clearing the way for men to learn from their past experiences and become the best possible versions of themselves.

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Life Prioirities

Merlin's Code | Quest 2

Life Priorities examines the four main priorities in life and the challenges caused by not having them in the right order - especially the affect on your wellbeing, mental health and relationships. This Quest helps you get your priorities in the correct order, set and maintain boundaries around those priorities and learn to negotiate and agree on temporary changes to those priorities with others when needed. It provides you with a framework for living and making important decisions, which helps improve your happiness, personal fulfillment, connections and relationships.

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The Natural Order

Merlin's Code | Quest 3

The Natural Order provides insights into how there is an order within relationships and family structures driven by personality types, and the unnecessary challenges and conflicts faced by men who don't fully understand and accept their natural place within that order. This Quest helps you become comfortable with who you really are, understand how you and your partner fit into the Natural Order, and how you can both exist in harmony.

This Quest highlights how your ideas and understanding of intimacy, sexuality, personal interactions between males and females, how to treat a woman, how to argue, how to react to confrontation, and so on, has all been unconsciously instilled in you by your life experiences. The Quest guides you towards becoming a man who creates a harmonious life with his partner, and knows how to approach conflict in a controlled and respectful way.

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Emotional Responsibility

Merlin's Code | Quest 4

Emotional Responsibility is about understanding the affects that your emotions have on the way you show up as a man, and more importantly, how your response to those emotions effects those closest to you. This Quest takes you on a journey towards a deeper awareness of your emotional body and helps you identify and connect with your feelings - allowing you to control your emotional reactions to life's challenges and become more Emotionally Responsible in your responses to those challenges.

It helps you feel emotions in your body and be able to control your emotional responses, as well as share your feelings with your partner, family and friends in a useful and meaningful way.

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Family Harmony

Merlin's Code | Quest 5

The Family Harmony Quest helps you create a sense of unity and togetherness among family members. It creates a positive atmosphere where conflicts are resolved amicably, and individuals can express themselves freely without fear of judgment or criticism. It takes you on a journey towards becoming a man who shows up as a happy, balanced and loving man, and a good partner and father - a man who has a positive routine and dedicates time to ensure that your Life Priorities remain focused, your "cup remains full", you are Emotionally Responsible and understand why that is important to Family Harmony.

This Quest helps you to work with your partner (or housemates) to put the strategies and support structures in place to ensure a harmonious home, and develop the Life Skills to work with your partner to create a life of happiness and harmony within your home. It reminds you that your children are watching and learning from their observations and experiences of what is being modelled to them by their parents. When you take responsibility for the way that you "show up" (especially at the end of a work day), your family will feel safe enough to connect, communicate, and share their lives in harmony!

"I now have a deeper understanding of who I actually am as a man, how I can be authentic in who I am, and share my experiences and emotions openly and honestly. Merlin's Code has helped me be more open and honest in communication within my relationships, build deeper trust in those relationships with awareness of what's going on with myself and my partner, and have open conversations and not be fearful to express myself in a way that my partner can hear me."

Brooke Lucas

"Merlin's Code taught me that the thing I need to focus on most is me. The way I show up, the way I stand, and the way I understand things. Now I've got a better ability to be able to hold my space, to be able to not be blocked by the challenges of life - the ups and downs - and how I'm going to be able to show up for my family and my friends and maintain that."

Jason Spink

"I've learned life skills that have changed me as a man. They allow me to finish my day, and to go home and be a different man when I walk through that door - to be the real me. I've learned to how to deal differently with things in my life, to understand how I'm feeling rather than just getting angry... to consider other options. It gave me different tools that allow me to change the way I react and respond."

Gary Bates

Facilitated and Self-Paced Courses

The Merlin's Code course is offered in two forms:

  • Full course - Facilitated by our Certified Mentors.
  • Individual modules - Self-paced eLearning Courses

Upcoming Facilitated Group Courses

We are taking registrations now for the following upcoming Merlin's Code online group learning programs.

The facilitated group learning program is run over a five-week period and covers the entire Merlin's Code course. You will be required to complete the online course material in your own time before our weekly online meetings via Zoom. These meetings happen twice per week for the five weeks and involve all course participants. The meetings are facilitated by WYSER Men's Certified Mentors and WYSER Elders, and run for approximately 2 hours giving participants a total of 22 hours of mentoring.

During the weekly Zoom meetings, our Certified Mentors will facilitate all men in the group to be able to discuss their personal discoveries and challenges from working through the course material. This enables all participants to gain a much deeper understanding of Merlin's Code, as well as gain greater insights and benefits from the learnings and experiences of other men in his group.

The weekly meetings not only enable you to connect with and learn from other men who are on the same journey as you, but also to foster the creation of an ongoing support network of like-minded men who have committed themselves to do the "work" required to understand Manhood and apply those learnings towards becoming a better man.

Merlin's Code
Life Skills & Mental Health Awareness

4 Jul 2024 to 8 Aug 2024
Online Zoom calls are on
Thursdays and Mondays starting 7:30pm
(Timezone Australia/Brisbane)

Merlin's Code
Life Skills & Mental Health Awareness

19 Aug 2024 to 23 Sep 2024
Online Zoom calls are on
Mondays and Thursdays starting 7:30pm
(Timezone Australia/Brisbane)

Merlin's Code
Life Skills & Mental Health Awareness

3 Oct 2024 to 7 Nov 2024
Online Zoom calls are on
Thursdays and Mondays starting 7:30pm
(Timezone Australia/Brisbane)

Self-Paced Individual Courses

Complete the Merlin's Code program in your own time. Register and start now!

The Merlin's Code program can be completed on a per-module basis as 5 separate courses. Students can complete one or more of the courses as individual self-paced eLearning modules. Simply register for one of the courses and complete it at your own pace. These courses are not facilitated.

A Man's Timeline
Merlin's Code Quest 1

A deep look into explaining a man's journey across his whole life and how his formative years unconsciously influences the man he is today. Drop off your emotional baggage!

Life Priorities
Merlin's Code Quest 2

You will quickly come to realise that the priorities you have adopted in your life do NOT serve you or your family, giving you a life-changing self-awareness.

The Natural Order
Merlin's Code Quest 3

A deep look into relationship and family structures and how there is a natural order to how they can exist in harmony. Learn how to argue respectfully.

Emotional Responsibility
Merlin's Code Quest 4

Develop awareness about your emotions (other than anger) and learn how to deal with and share your emotions and feelings with your loved ones and others.

Family Harmony
Merlin's Code Quest 5

Learn how to create a harmonious family environment where your children can learn communication, connection, and boundaries all from your modelling!

WYSER Men Money Back Guarantee
Money back guarantee

Money Back Guarantee

Your satisfaction is what's most important to us. If at any time prior to the third Zoom meeting, for whatever reason, notify us in writing that you are not getting value from the Merlin's Code course, and we will give your money back.